There can be little doubt that meeting up with the Twin Soul pulls one or both onto a more spiritual path as they look back and marvel at how they were brought together.To change one’s life like this takes enormous courage, but it also takes infinite patience. And if you are in such a pairing, you can experience a Twin Soul connection both as a gift and a curse!The lessons of why we unite with our twin soul can be varied, but one reason is to teach each other about accepting love without fear, about healing the pain of love and loss and bringing the two halves of the soul back together again.If you are able to look at the birth charts of both twins, you will often see synastry involving Pluto, the planet of deep transformation and Saturn the planet of rigidity, control and longevity at work. Both are very karmic. In deep love affairs, also look to Chiron in the synastry to see how she is touching Venus in the other chart.Learning to have patience and not forcing the relationship is part of the twin soul process. If you are trying to force your will onto the other person, chances are you’re not ready to really connect yourself. There should be no blame here – only deep and unconditional love.